Love the way you lie

This is an old post I had posted on my other blog June 5th 2012 But I felt it belonged on here so I posted it here, what with the sasaengs getting more extreme it seemed befitting though in this post I speak about tvxq and JYJ but it can be applied to all groups with sasaengs.

So the other day I was doing some research for my other blog to show the mindset of "fans" known as Sasaengs when I found a "stalking" video the video shows footage of Yoochun Park former member of TVXQ dbsk and member of JYJ being stalked by sasaeng. The thing that shocked me more than the video was the song used as audio for the video it was the first verse of Love The Way You Lie pt2 by rihanna.
The first verse goes like so

On the first page of our story, the future seems so bright.
And this thing turned out so evil, I don’t know why I’m still surprised.
Even angels have their wicked schemes and you take that to new extremes.
But you’ll always be my hero, even though you lost your mind.

do let me know if I am wrong but it seems to me as though the sasaeng is surprised that the idols dislike their actions and believe they are crazy .




On the first page of our story, the future seems so bright.
And this thing turned out so evil, I don’t know why I’m still surprised.
Even angels have their wicked schemes and you take that to new extremes.
But you’ll always be my hero, even though you lost your mind.

Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
I love the way you lie.

Now this gravel in our voices, glass is shattered from the fight.
In this tug of war, you’ll always win, even when I’m right.
Cause you feed me fables from your hand,
With violet words and empty threats and it’s sick that all these battles are what keeps me satisfied.

Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
Ohhh, I love the way you lie.

So maybe I’m a masochist
I try to run but I don’t wanna ever leave.
Til the walls are goin’ up in smoke with all our memories.

[Eminem]
This morning, you wake, a sunray hits your face
smeared makeup as we lay in the wake of destruction
hush baby, speak softly, tell me I’ll be sorry that you
pushed me into the coffee table last night so I can push you off me
try and touch me so I can scream at you not to touch me
run out the room and I’ll follow you like a lost puppy
baby, without you, I’m nothing, I’m so lost, hug me
then tell me how ugly I am, but that you’ll always love me
then after that, shove me, in the aftermath of the
destructive path that we’re on, two psychopaths but we
know that no matter how many knives we put in each other’s backs
that we’ll have each other’s backs, ’cause we’re that lucky
together, we move mountains, let’s not make mountains out of molehills,
you hit me twice, yeah, but who’s countin’
I may have hit you three times, I’m startin’ to lose count
but together, we’ll live forever, we found the youth fountain
our love is crazy, we’re nuts, but I refused counselin’
this house is too huge, if you move out I’ll burn all two thousand
square feet of it to the ground, ain’t shit you can do about it
with you I’m in my f–kin’ mind, without you, I’m out it

Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
Ohhh, I love the way you lie.
I love the way you lie.

the way the lyrics should go for the guys

On the first page of our story, the future seems so bright.
And this thing turned out so evil, I don’t know why I’m still surprised.
Even angels have their wicked schemes and you take that to new extremes.

Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
I love the way you lie.

Now this gravel in our voices, glass is shattered from the fight.
In this tug of war, you’ll always win, even when I’m right.
Cause you feed me fables from your hand,
With violet words and empty threats and it’s sick you lost your mind.

Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
Ohhh, I love the way you lie.

So maybe I’m a masochist
I try to run but I don’t wanna ever leave.
Til the walls are goin’ up in smoke with all our memories.

[Eminem]
This morning, you wake, a sunray hits your face
smeared makeup in the wake of destruction
hush baby, speak softly, tell me I’ll be sorry that you
pushed me into the coffee table last night so I can push you off me
try and touch me so I can scream at you not to touch me


then tell me baby, without you, I’m nothing, I’m so lost, hug me
then tell me how ugly I am, but that you’ll always love me
then after that, shove me, in the aftermath of the
destructive path that we’re on, two psychopaths let’s not make mountains out of molehills,
you hit me twice, yeah, but who’s countin’
I may have hit you three times, I’m startin’ to lose count

Your love is crazy, we’re nuts, ain’t shit you can do about it
without you, I’m in my f–kin’ mind, with you I’m out it

Just gonna stand there and watch me burn,
But that’s alright because I like the way it hurts.
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry,
But that’s alright because I love the way you lie, I love the way you lie.
Ohhh, I love the way you lie.
I love the way you lie.

The reason for the words like this easy in the beginning the guys didn't really have such crazy sasaengs but then the outrageous things started to happen The things they did got worse and worse and although they seem innocent those sasaengs are evil! Fans Lie they claim to love their "Oppa's" but instead they hurt them over and over again building them up and trying to crush them. The men keep entertaining because it is who they are they cannot stop and honestly I think even if they did stop they would still be stalked regardless. They love their fans and are tormented by everything. The sasaengs beat on the guys alot and there have been times they have defended themselves and times where they have been violent having had enough of the abuse they suffer at the hands of the Sasaengs. There is a love hate relationship between idol and sasaengs,  sasaengs overly love them and love them in a bad way and sometimes they hate the idols for their rejection but still love them meanwhile idols hate sasaeng actions and most do not consider them fans but twisted fans. so that is that I am mainly rambling on .

The part that I find really describes the relationship between Kpop idols and sasaengs the best is

You ever love somebody so much, you could barely breathe when you with 'em?
You meet, and neither one of you even know it hit 'em
Got that warm fuzzy feeling, yeah, them chills, used to get 'em
Now you're gettin' fuckin' sick of lookin' at 'em

You swore you'd never hit 'em, never do nothing to hurt 'em
Now you're in each others face spewing venom in your words when you spit 'em
You push, pull each others hair, scratch, claw, bit 'em
Throw 'em down, pin 'em, so lost in the moments when you're in 'em

such shame

I have stated before that I am not a big fan of AKP due to their shadiness , however if you want to know what the talk of the kpop world is with all the rumors and all they generally have it. However after a recent stunt where they posted naked pictures of Ailee up I am removing all their links. While this new link is not the story that had me so enraged when I wrote this, the story is better written.

http://www.kdramastars.com/articles/10812/20131008/baek-ji-young-discusses-pain-caused-miscarriage-remarks.htm

http://www.asianjunkie.com/2013/10/baek-ji-young-sues-netizens-who-mocked-her-miscarriage-yes-really/


"A WS Entertainment rep responded, "Do these people who make sarcastic remarks and ridicule a woman who suffered a miscarriage have common sense? We will take action against netizens who gave deep emotional pain to Baek Ji Young and her family." another translation of the statement is

“Do the people, who managed to say things that are inconceivable to a woman who experienced an abortion, words that are fully of sarcasm and mockery, have common sense? We will proactively take action against the netizens who left Baek Ji Young and her family with deep scars.”

I was happy at least the company is taking action on her behalf.

There are somethings in life one should never touch upon no matter your opinions on a person . What gives a stranger the right to tell someone who is grieving the loss of their baby "If you feel sorry for the baby you should die quietly" I have said it several times in the past What the fuck is wrong with Koreans that they always tell their artists they should kill themselves ! why is suicide such a popular trend there? Korea obviously has A LONG list of things they need to improve in their society. Bullying, Stalking, Suicide the youth of Korea needs some help in the form of mental, medical and emotional support.

Being so far along and losing the baby is such a painful experience not just the main fact the baby will never smile up at you. At almost 5 months pregnant she would have actually have a still birth and the abortion process. The experience is emotionally mentally and physically painful . I am saddened to think there are people cruel enough to attack a woman in such a vulnerable position. What has she ever personally done wrong to you? Just because she is famous and married to a famous actor you spite her and attack her. I would never wish the kind of pain she went through onto anyone but I hope if those people are ever put in the same situation they realize just what rotten things they have done. The guilt will be their cross to bear but I get the feeling they wouldn't care people who do not value life enough to tell someone to kill themselves can never truly understand how precious life is.

I am at a loss of what else to say about this I can't believe I am only hearing about this now and it happened in June but I am happy to see actions have been taken towards netizens. Korea needs to make some changes we should not be seeing articles with headlines that involve hate comments towards miscarriage or sasaengs crash wedding or netizens tell -------- to die like his father or tell ------- they are glad their father died. How can people so cold and cruel be so proud? I will never understand.